Paul Simos
2 min readDec 27, 2018

Who Influences us The Most?

Who do we spend the most time with?…

I’m sure you have heard the saying…

We are the average of the 5 closest people we spend most of our time with…

Right?…

Those 5 people are conditioning us to their standard whether we like it or not…

Our environment is always impacting us in a positive or not so positive way…

If we had to pick one person who has the biggest impact, influence on our life, who would it be?…

⁃ Mom or Dad….

⁃ Husband or wife…

⁃ Best friend…

⁃ Work colleague…

Who’s that one person that has the greatest impact on our lives?…

STOP. LISTEN UP…

it’s OURSELVES…

Dah…

We are with ourselves 24/7, we are the ones who have our internal dialogue (Self Talk) going around the clock…

We can’t escape it…

Our program is running…

We are our biggest influencer…

⁃ I can’t do that…

⁃ Not qualified…

⁃ It’s too hard…

⁃ What will people think…

⁃ I’ve never done it before…

⁃ I’ll fail…

⁃ I’m no good…

⁃ I never amount to anything…

Stop it, stop it, stop those internal thoughts and dialogue that have the biggest influence in our lives, more than we realise…

We are our biggest influencer and we need to start there first…

Understand this…

Reprogramming our Self Talk by becoming aware of how we talk to ourselves throughout the day…

Check in with your thoughts regularly to see what your biggest influencer is up to…

Stop it, stop it, don’t talk to yourself that way…

If we spoke to our friends like we speak to ourselves I’m sure we would have less friends…

Yes?….

Here’s the deal…

If we have nothing nice to say to ourselves it is best we say nothing at all…

Thoughts are real energy things that we send out into the universe to return to us one day…

Don’t say it if we don’t want it coming back to visit us in our reality…

Start working NOW on the BIGGEST influencer in our lives, OURSELVES…

Love

Paul Simos
Paul Simos

Written by Paul Simos

Executive Master Coach & Author

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