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Paul Simos
2 min readApr 2, 2019

Rock, Pebbles, and Sand In our life

A philosophy professor once stood up before his class with a large empty mayonnaise jar. He filled the jar to the top with large rocks and asked his students if the jar was full…

The students said that yes, the jar was indeed full…

He then added small pebbles to the jar, and gave the jar a bit of a shake so the pebbles could disperse themselves among the larger rocks. Then he asked again, “Is the jar full now?”…

The students agreed that the jar was still full…

The professor then poured sand into the jar to fill up any remaining empty space. The students then agreed that the jar was completely full…

The professor went on to explain that the jar represents everything that is in one’s life. The rocks are equivalent to the most important projects and things you have going on, such as spending time with your family and maintaining proper health. This means that if the pebbles and the sand were lost, the jar would still be full and your life would still have meaning…

The pebbles represent the things in your life that matter, but that you could live without. The pebbles are certainly things that give your life meaning (such as your job, house, hobbies, and friendships), but they are not critical for you to have a meaningful life. These things often come and go, and are not permanent or…

Paul Simos
Paul Simos

Written by Paul Simos

Executive Master Coach & Author

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