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How Flexible You Are With Your Behavior Will Determine Your Outcomes
We all have outcomes that we are working towards on a daily basis whether it is to buy our morning coffee, raise our children, manage our staff or sell my products and services…
Yes or yes?…That’s right…
Some of our outcomes are very easy to obtain while others appear to be much more difficult…
You would love to discover a secret to achieve more of your outcomes and much sooner, wouldn’t you?…
I thought so…
In the coaching and training work that I do we have a way of thinking which supports our desired outcomes and it goes like this…
“The person with the most flexibility of behavior will Control the system”…
For example…
A young mother goes to visit a behavioural Psychologist because her young 5 year old daughter has some behavioural challenges…
The Doctor asked how he can help and the mother says I’m having problems to control my young daughters behaviour…
Can you give me an example, says the doctor…
The mother then started to explain how Marie, the daughter, would go shopping with me and she keeps putting lollies, candy, chocolates, biscuits etc in the shopping trolley…