Are You In Or are You Out?

I use to be a very indecisive person…

Hey Paul, you coming to the…

⁃ Gym tomorrow…

⁃ Cafe with me…

⁃ Beach for the weekend…

⁃ Workshop training…

⁃ Meet-up talk show…

And my response would be…

⁃ Maybe…

⁃ Could go…

⁃ Not sure…

⁃ Who else is going…

⁃ I’m very busy…

⁃ Possibly…

These are very weak, disempowering words that kept me sitting on the fence of life…

I was living in a no mans land and never made a decision one way or the other…

Well actually, by not making a decision one way or the other, was my decision…

It really is a disempowering state to live here most of the time…

Until one day I decided to change…

One of my friends was very up front with me and said…

Paul, you never made a decision, you always want to think about it, not sure, maybe…

Your very apathetic…

Make a decision right now, it doesn’t matter what you decide, just make a decision one way or the other…